As we strive to navigate power inequities, an upfront agreement can level the playing field. — Many of us are doing our best to raise our social consciousness and be considerate of one another as our culture finds its way to a new normal. On almost every important subject, we’re working to create space for differences of opinion and finding a new middle ground (or not)…

With one simple question, reduce misunderstanding and discover delight. — When I realized my grand plan to get married and have kids wasn’t going to manifest, I decided I would forge ahead on my own. For me, that meant doing research to learn parenting techniques and building a support system to help me make it happen. I served on the…

Blood Banks are some of the happiest places on earth. Here’s what you’re missing. — In the spring of 1980, I drove across the US by myself. It was one of the best things I have ever done. When I got to North Carolina, I visited my aunt and uncle, whom I rarely saw because they lived across the country. …

In cyber, nothing is trusted. That’s the assumption: all things are bad until they aren’t. — If you haven’t watched The Social Dilemma on Netflix yet, I encourage you to spend 90 minutes and watch. Include the older kids. You may need to pause it at times to discuss the point. It’s worthy of a discussion. As a life-long Silicon Valley marketer, it struck a nerve. …

Invaluable help for victims of trauma. It’s worth trying if you’re struggling. — In July 2018, Paige St John released a podcast called Man in the Window. It’s a fantastic podcast that tells the Golden State Killer story, emphasizing the women and the times (the 1970s). In the final episode, Resurrection, Paige talks about the therapist Phyllis (Victim #1) and Kris Pedretti are…

My victim impact statement in the Golden State Killer case: he is a hallmark of white privilege. — This is a copy of my written statement. You can watch the whole thing here via the local news’ Facebook page. My part begins at roughly 21 minutes. Inside scoop, I did two things at the beginning, spoke to the judge about lawyers to help me relax and transition. And…

Decades later, I’m still dealing with the shame. — The most shameful thing about the murder of my dad and stepmom, Lyman and Charlene Smith, was being a suspect. I can’t believe it happened. I still can’t believe the police thought I could do something so awful. My mom was my alibi that night, and she failed to remember…

He’s managed to dodge death row. Here’s what will happen instead. — “I did all those things,” Ho said DeAngelo muttered. “I’ve destroyed all their lives, so now I’ve got to pay the price.” Joseph DeAngelo has pled guilty to 13 counts of first-degree murder and 13 counts of kidnapping. He also admitted guilt in 62 other crimes, including rapes, robbery, and…

Grab your home team and negotiate a winning plan for learning. — You have superpowers at work. There are processes and procedures for everything, and even when you’re innovating, you know how to get that done. The by-product of your experience is a feeling of competence and confidence. Suddenly, you’re working from home (if you’re lucky), and you see the food-stained faces…